Lexi, Age 17, Illinois
LEXI: It’s really terrifying, because it feels like we’re moving backward sometimes. I knew I was different by the third grade, and now it’s illegal in some states to discuss LGBTQ topics with third graders. Now there’s actual laws in place that make it harder and harder for us to live.
MOM: Looking back, I can understand how some parents may be hesitant for their kids to be educated about transgender people. But looking back, it would have been helpful for her to be exposed to different genders so that she could feel more connected because she’s been a little girl ever since I can remember. At about two years old she started holding onto dollies, dressing them up. She was three years old, brushing her Barbie’s hair. So she knew from an early age. And my son knew from an early age that he was a boy. Because he’d play with trains, and he’d play with cars. But it was not as open as it is today. And we’re just talking fifteen years ago.
LEXI: I think the laws are making me a little scared for the future. Because of how everything’s going. Roe v. Wade being overturned. It feels like it’s getting un-accepting, rather than accepting, in the land of the free.
MOM: We’re hoping for more support for our children. If I would have known, I would have gotten her on medication a long time ago. I want parents to be more informed, one way or the other, so they can make decisions to help their children because this is the best life that we can give her.
LEXI: These laws aren’t OK. And I think people need faces to see that, we don’t agree. And we’re here. And we don’t like being put down. Believe in yourself. You’ll make it. You’ll get there. It’s gonna sound funny but, you’ll get to where you’re going, and you’ll find happiness. It’s out there. I think I’m still finding mine. You’ll find people who support you, and love you, unconditionally. And you’re gonna have a great life. Just keep being you.
MOM: I would say to most parents - just be open-minded. And educate yourself before making assumptions. It’s different from what you’re used to. Open yourself up to options and inform yourself about the LGBTQ community.
DAD: Love your children unconditionally. Support them, whatever makes them happy. In the long run, it’s all about happiness.